MISSING CHILDREN

Dear Friends, Valued Clients and Colleagues


My wife and partner of 15 years Siti Komariah ( Koma ) has resigned her post with the Exbali organization.
Her resignation letter was tendered via email from an unknown location..

"With this email, i would like to inform you that i am resign from ExBali
I would like to take this opportunity to sincerely thank you for the chance that you gave me to experince (SIC) and built knowledge beyond my dream during my work with ExBali.
I sincerely also wishing you all the best in the future with ExBali and with your life."
Kind regard,

Koma


Exbali will continue to operate as it always has, providing first class Products and Services.
Koma's role as the local business operator has been filled by Ms Ani Indra

If you have received any past invoicing from Koma with banking details in the the name of Siti Komariah

please be advised these details are no longer valid.

Contact  Exbali for new banking details. Our apologies for any inconvenience this may cause.

Two years ago Koma began a journey exploring her religion and has gradually become more extreme in her outlook and actions.
This has manifested itself in many ways over this period, including leaving with the children for a week after I sat with them and explained that mommy and daddy might not live together in the near future, on another occasion Koma disappeared for 10 days leaving the children behind, having no contact with them whatsoever during that period, declaring in a rare email statement at the time,

"I can always run away , forever not returning and forever travel around the globe, find new live and opportunity in other country. That kind of live can be arrange and possible."

The latest and most extreme by holding our children as ransom is documented below.

Four Months ago Koma disappeared one afternoon with our 3 happy daughters aged 12, 10 and 4 to an unknown location, removing them instantly from their International school, friends, extra curricular activities and their family home.
Friends and family are shocked and dismayed by her actions.

Needless to say, the unconditional trust I placed in my partner has totally evaporated.
 

After fruitless searches I have had no contact whatsoever with my wife or our children.   Evidence would suggest the children's ability to contact me is being heavily censured by their mother.   A private Investigator is now engaged to try and locate my children.

UPDATE:

Four weeks ago due to the unrelenting diligence of my investigation team I was able to locate my missing children on the Island of Java.

Last week, almost 4 months to the day, with the knowledge that Koma would not be present, I sat with the children and was able speak with them for a couple of hours, albeit in the company of armed police who were called under the auspices of my presence and intention to remove the children from their mothers care. Nothing could be farther from the truth.

I found the children healthy and safe, Laura, angry and confused, a typical 12 year old. Amanda quiet and withdrawn and Sabria simply a happy 5 year old  too young to understand.

I explained to them in any marital conflict there were always two persons to blame and each must share equal responsibility. I told my kids they were blameless in this situation, However running away and hiding was not the right thing to do. I reassured them that I never stopped and never would stop loving them and that if they disappeared again it may take time but I would find them again to ensure they were safe and happy. I asked them to contact me from time to time. After hugs and tears I returned to my hotel, shadowed by men in uniform.
 

The visit has given me closure, the ability to finally communicate with my children great joy.

Soon after my return to Bali I was presented with a lawyers letter.

I sincerely hope that my ex-wife can sit at the table and truthfully agree to some terms of settlement.

To this day  my children have not contacted me since my visit to them.

JFK

The great enemy of the truth is very often not the lie -- deliberate, contrived and dishonest -- but the myth -- persistent, persuasive and unrealistic.